Mr. Quickly and Ms. Ong, who are facilitate parents, work to foster children, foster them in a safe environment, and give them room to express their strong, overwhelming emotions.
It is traveling alongside them. You will go through a lot of emotions, such as possibly having an outburst thrown at you or perhaps feeling incredibly unrecognized, she said.
Benjamin may yell at them to leave when he was enraged, but Mr. Quickly said that when they left, they would cry at him to return.  ,
Additionally, he would occasionally let them know that they did n’t want him to be with them and instead wanted to return home.
You must understand that they are going through a bit. They are grieving the loss of their normal home and family as they adjust to us.
Again, Mr. Quickly and Ms. Ong went to pick up Benjamin from the MRT place after he had spent the weekend with his birth family.
Mr. Soon recalled that he was yelling” I do n’t want you,” at the top of his lungs.
” We had to get through it, and later he felt more at ease, became more receptive to our questions and became calmer.
Benjamin eventually mastered the art of controlling his rage and speaking with his foster parents.
The apples are those. It’s lovely to observe them regaining their confidence in you, said Ms. Ong.
” Those were pivotal moments ( and ) we realized it was worthwhile.
A SAFE SPACE IS CREATED
When Mr. Quickly began to think about fostering ten years ago after learning about it in religion, he realized in hindsight how foolish it had been for him to do so.
” You really think this is a really good picture—a family, foster child, or an paternal child.” Simply concepts and ideas, he claimed.  ,
There are times when things are challenging, but gradually we welcomed the kids into our home.