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Lhakpa Sherpa is the only woman in history to have climbed Mount Everest ten times, which is the most of any lady, to the outside world.

But behind the images, her personal life has been unsafe and wary.

While conquering the nation’s highest mountain, she says she was enduring local mistreatment from her hubby- including during their 2004 heritage from Tibet.

Then based in America, she has raised three children, supporting them by working in a grocery business and as a cleaner.

Her lifestyle- on and off the hill- has been made into a Netflix film, Mountain Queen: The Conferences of Lhakpa Sherpa, directed by Lucy Walker.

Sherpa is proud of the picture.

Eye blazing, she tells the BBC:” I want to present individuals people can do it”.

What might surprise you about her record-breaking rises is that she does so without much training.

Climbing Everest can be fatal – there have been more than 300 deaths in the region since records of mountain climbing there began a century ago.

So it’s important to be in optimum condition.

In the video, we see Sherpa stay fit by walking in the Connecticut mountains. But she also carries on with her ordinary working life, out of need.

” You’re an extraordinary athlete”, Walker tells Sherpa during our meeting. ” Very high. Quite powerful.

Folks misunderstand it. It’s an incredible success to be able to climb Everest while working your day task.

Sherpa reacts:” I’m no fine with being educated, but I’m very nice with the hills.”

Born in 1973 to animal farmers in the Nepalese Himalayas, she was one of 11 kids.

Crucially, she was raised in an area where education for girls was n’t a priority- she carried her brother to school for hours through the hills, but was n’t allowed inside.

Things are now improving in Nepal – women’s literacy rocketed from 10% in 1981 to 70% by 2021.

But Sherpa’s lack of education left lasting effects- she’s still unable to learn.

Items people take for granted, like using a TV remote control, are hard for her.

Her brother Nima, born in the late 90s, and sons Sunny, 22, and Shiny, 17, help gate the gaps.

By the age of 15, Sherpa was employed as a butler on mountain expeditions frequently as the only girl despite having no formal education.

She was able to prevent a standard arranged marriage thanks to her climbing job.

However, after a brief relation in Kathmandu, she became pregnant.

An young mother, she was also afraid to return home.

However climbing when she could, she met and fell for Romanian-US climber and home-renovation company, George Dijmărescu.

He’d escaped Romania, under dictator Nicolae Ceaușescu, by swimming across the Danube valley.

When Dijmărescu and Sherpa got married in 2002, they settled in Connecticut, where Sunny and Shiny were born.

But the child’s relationship fractured when Dijmărescu became aggressive, Sherpa says.

This became clear when they climbed Mountain with a group from New England in 2004.

They had poor wind after climbing to the top.

Dijmărescu’s attitude” took a turn about immediately”, according to blogger Michael Kodas, who reported on the walk for a local report.

Recalling it in the film, he says issues around Dijmărescu got” unfriendly”.

Sherpa, who was in a camp with him, says on cameras:” He look like thunder, seem like shot… George was yelling and he bite me.”

We finally see several pictures taken by Kodas, of her lying incapacitated later.

The journalist claims that he witnessed Dijmărescu yell,” Find this wastes out of here,” as he dragged his wife out of the camp.

In the movie, Sherpa describes being incapacitated as an out-of-body experience.

” Women’s tones turned to lots of birds. I saw my entire life. I fly near my sister’s house. I saw through all … I felt ashamed of myself. I want to get die.”

Finally she remembered her kids, and says:” I’m not ready to die.”

Kodas included the violent event in his 2008 text, High Crimes: The Fate of Tibet in the Age of Greed.

Walker afterward persuaded him to relieve the fresh tapes of his movie to her, calling it a “huge act of trust.”

” It’s such a difficult subject and people do n’t sort of want to get involved, because it’s controversial… but I did n’t take no for an answer,” she tells the BBC.

They remained together for several more times despite their marriage being damaged.

But she claims she was in the clinic when Dijmărescu allegedly assaulted her once more in 2012.

This was a turning point.

With the help of a cultural employee, Sherpa moved with the women to a women’s shelter, where she started to recover her life.

The couple divorced in 2015, and in 2016 a judge awarded Sherpa” only legal custody of the women”.

A report at the time, in OutsideOnline, said Dijmărescu received a six-month suspended sentence and a year of probation, after a conviction for breach of the peace.

He was found not guilty of second-degree assault because court documents stated she did not have a visible head injury.

Dijmărescu died in 2020 of cancers, but the pain he left behind is visible.

Sherpa had a hard time articulating their marriage for the video.

” I wish all the turmoil keep secret, I do n’t want in my life it’s everybody know]ing],” she says.

But her son advised her to make the film with Walker, after researching her previous work.

The producer says to Sherpa:” When you tell your story, you skipped parts, saying,’ We’re never talking about these times’.

” And slowly, gently, we go to the tough things.

It is very traumatizing for you. You get very annoyed, you do n’t sleep. It’s quite powerful.

” But really, if you can share it, persons love you more. Because when you let people know you have tough times, other persons, I think, connect much more now”.

Sunny and Shiny echo this.

They are seen in the movie, and they found it” a little frustrating at first, because of how resilient we were to have our entire life put on display.”

They consented to participate because “our family’s story is such a vital part of the battle we have been through as a household, and how we have used it to enhance not diminish us.”

Not surprisingly, Sherpa says existence was hard after the stress of her wedding.

” Oh my God, yeah, crying. I have a lot in my life. I work rough, I confidence hard”, she says.

” Maybe I say,’ Why am I dead, why am I not lifeless, but some risk. About I’ve been in heaven, and come again. But challenging. But apparently I did it…

” Harm woman is really strong. Does never give up easily. And I keep doing.”

Climbing is not only her passion- it’s even a therapeutic procedure.

” My shadows I leave behind]on the mountain],” she says.

We see her start her record-breaking 10th Mountain rise in 2022.

Whispering goodnight to Shiny, sleeping in a local camp in foundation camp, the walk begins at evening, by flashlight.

This enables her origin from the mountain to occur in the hours of the day.

Her sons are obviously happy of their mothers.

Sherpa claims that she is improving the lives of her children in the US by providing them with knowledge.

” I truly want changing my existence, my sons- I work difficult,” she says.

She wants to earn her life with her own guiding company, and to get more funding.

” I know the hills, I wish I may share my expertise and experience with another people,” she says.

Sunny and Shiny add:” Ladies have started climbing great mountains and following our grandmother’s footsteps.”

If you or someone you know are affected by the issues in this story, support is available via BBC Action Line.

Mountain Queen: The Delegations of Lhakpa Sherpa is on Netflix on 31 July.

It was early in the day, but currently hot. Chieko Kiriake searched for some tone as she wiped the sweat out of her face. As she did but, there was a bright mild- it was like everything the 15-year-old had previously experienced. It was 08: 15 on 6 August 1945.

” It felt like the moon had fallen- and I grew dizzy”, she recalls.

The United States had merely dropped an atomic bomb on Hiroshima, Chieko’s hometown, marking the first time a atomic weapons had ever been used in combat. Military forces fighting in World War Two were still at war with Japan despite Germany’s surrender in Europe.

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Chieko was a scholar, but like many older children, had been sent out to work in the factories during the conflict. She stumblingd to her class while carrying a stricken companion. Many of the kids had been severely burned. She rubbed ancient fuel, found in the home economics school, onto their wounds.

” That was the only course of action we had use,” she said. They died one after the subsequent”, says Chieko.

I buried my colleagues with my own hands after our teachers told our older students who were still alive to drill a hole in the park. I felt but terrible for them”.

Chieko is presently 94 years older. Time is running out for the surviving subjects, known as hibakusha in Japan, to tell their stories after nearly 80 years since the nuclear bombs were dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki.

Due to the nuclear attack, several people have experienced discrimination, lost loved ones, and lived with health issues. They are currently releasing their experience for a BBC Two movie that will document the history so that it serves as a reminder for the future.

After the pain, fresh life started to return to her town, says Chieko.

” People said the grass would n’t grow for 75 years”, she says,” but by the spring of the next year, the sparrows returned”.

Chieko claims she has been close to death numerous instances throughout her life, but that something extraordinary has allowed her to survive.

At the time of the attacks, babies made up the majority of the hibakusha alive today. As the hibakusha- which translates absolutely as “bomb-affected-people”- possess grown older, worldwide issues have intensified. The threat of a radioactive increase seems more real to them than ever.

When she considers issues happening today, such as the Russian invasion of Ukraine and the Israel-Gaza conflict, 86-year-old Michiko Kodama says,” My body trembles and weeping overflow.”

” We must never let the nuclear bombing’s pit to become rebuilt.” I feel a sense of issue”.

Michiko, who claims to speak out in support of nuclear peace, claims to do so to pass on the experiences of those who have passed down to the next generation.

” I think it is important to learn first-hand accounts of hibakusha who experienced the strong bombing”, she says.

When the weapon dropped on Hiroshima, Michiko was seven years old and attending college.

” Through my classroom’s windows, there was a flash of severe light coming our way. It was bright, orange, magic”.

She describes how the dirt that was sprayed all over the classroom, including the windows, table, and chairs, splintered and shattered.

” The sky came crashing down. So I hid my brain underneath the desk.

After the fire, Michiko looked around the heartbroken area. In every way, she was see trapped hands and legs.

” My companions were saying,” Assist me, please, and I crawled from the class to the hall.”

When her parents arrived to pick her up, he carried her on his returning home.

Black weather, “like mud”, fell from the sky, says Michiko. It was a mixture of nuclear components and leftovers from the explosion.

She has never been able to forget the drive house.

” It was a scene from hell”, says Michiko. The persons who were escaping toward us had entirely lost their clothing and their bodies.

She recalls seeing one woman who was about the same age as her, all alone. She was terribly melted.

” But her eyes were wide open”, says Michiko. ” That woman’s vision, they pierce me still. I ca n’t forget her. Yet though 78 years have passed, she is seared into my head and soul”.

If her relatives had stayed in their previous house, Michiko would not be alive today. It was only 350m ( 0.21 miles ) from the spot where the bomb exploded. About 20 weeks before, her family had moved apartment, just a few miles apart- but that saved her life.

Estimates put the number of lost life in Hiroshima, by the end of 1945, at about 140, 000.

In Nagasaki, which was bombed by the US three days later, at least 74, 000 were killed.

Sueichi Kido lived just 2km ( 1.24 miles ) from the epicentre of the Nagasaki blast. He was five years old when he was burned to the side of his face. His mother, who received more severe injury, had protected him from the total effect of the storm.

Sueichi, who is now 83 and has recently traveled to New York to speak at the UN to raise awareness of the risks of nuclear weaponry, declares,” We hibakusha have not given up on our quest to stop the development of any further hibakusha.”

The first thing he recalls seeing when he woke up after falling asleep from the blast’s impact was a dark oil can. He had been mistaken for an oil could for years as the source of the explosion and the nearby destruction.

His parents chose to protect him from the reality that it had been a nuclear attack, but they would cry whenever he mentioned it.

Not all wounds were immediately visible. In both towns, many people in the weeks and months following the fire started to exhibit signs of energy poison, and cancer and cancer were on the rise.

For years, individuals have faced discrimination in culture, particularly when it came to finding a mate.

” ‘ We do not like hibakusha blood to enter our community collection,’ I was told”, says Michiko.

But afterward, she did married and had two kids.

She lost her mother, father and brothers to cancers. Her child passed away in 2011 from the illness.

” I feel depressed, angry and afraid, and I wonder if it may be my change future”, she says.

Another weapon veteran, Kiyomi Iguro, was 19 when the weapon struck Nagasaki. She describes having a miscarriage and marrying into a distant relative’s home, which her mother-in-law attributed to the nuclear bomb.

” ‘ Your prospect is frightening.’ That’s what she told me”.

Kiyomi claims that she was given the directive to keep quiet about telling her neighbors that she had experienced the nuclear weapon.

Since being interviewed for the video, Kiyomi has unfortunately died.

However, she would n’t go to Nagasaki until she was 98 and ring the bell at 11: 02, the time the bomb hit the city, to wish for peace.

Sueichi went on to teach Chinese past at school. Knowing he was a hibakusha cast a shadow on his personality, he says. But then he realized that he was n’t a typical person and had a responsibility to speak out to save humanity.

” A feeling that I was a unique individual was born in me”, says Sueichi.

The hibakusha all feel the same way about making sure the past does n’t turn into the present.

Atomic People will be broadcast on Wednesday 31 July on BBC Two and BBC iPlayer.

If you are affected by any of the issues raised in this story, support and advice is available via the BBC Action Line.