Actress Xixi Lim on struggling with self-acceptance in her youth

Actress Xixi Lim on struggling with self-acceptance in her youth

Xixi and her uncle, who also appeared on Tuesday Report, have a close relationship. The latter would tell her:” Do n’t care about how others view you. You must first care for yourself and enjoy yourself before people can like you.

” She did n’t understand what I was saying back then. Perhaps I did n’t try to understand her from a different perspective. We had a lot of trouble during that day,” said her aunt.

Xixi said she became so depressed, she” could n’t stand ( herself )”. She was forced to look in the mirror every day and grow to love being herself.

She slowly stepped out of her shell, asking her friends for lunch or requesting a seat in their job party. She started small. When she was accepted into her classmate’s group, Xixi’s decision was a turning point because she realized” not everyone hated ( her )”.

” There are two methods I had overcome this challenge. I either have to reduce fat, or make sure that more people notice me”, said Xixi.

She then feces her appearance and wishes to speak out for other plus-sized people who are going through the same difficulties.

” As long as I have some level of fame, my words may be heard. Therefore I will be able to fight for another plus- small girls, so they can lead a more’ normal’ life”, she said.

Yet, she does no wish to be a myth.

People would call me” sweet,” and I may be sporting the most exaggerated headwear and wearing over-the-top make-up. That’s what I used to like. However, I’ve recently begun to consider how long I can go on being viewed as” cute.” That’s one of the issues I presently face”, admitted Xixi.

” I wish to start more gates, and to become a ray of hope for another”.

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