Judge allows mistress of 71-year-old dementia patient to contest his children for deputyship

SINGAPORE: When an old man developed memory, a court appointed his eldest child and youngest boy as shared deputies over his private welfare, property and affairs.

But, the children did not reveal the existence of their husband’s lady throughout the court proceedings. Since 2014, the partners has been dating.

When the lady learned about this, she was able to become a shared assistant as well, but she was unable to have the children’s deputyship removed.

She made an attempt to challenge this ruling, but her case was voided because her lawyer omitted a court date to record documents.

On Friday ( Dec 20 ), a High Court judge reinstated the woman’s appeal against the lower court’s decision not to revoke the children’s deputyship.

Justice Choo Han Teck said that by not disclosing the lady ‘ lifestyle, the children had necessarily limited the court’s judgment of their family’s best interests, as it was not able to balance his interests vis-a-vis her.

In doing so, the youngsters had “deprived the judge of a diverse selection of assistant” in the girl, said the judge.

The result of this non-disclosure was that the judge was restricted in its options to give effect to the best passions” of their parents, he said,” Leaving off for a time the issue of their purposes.”

The judge continued,” The situation raised “important problems that may benefit from the clarity of a higher tribunal.”

This was done because the investigation into whether the children’s deputyship may be terminated for failing to provide the court with relevant information was a different one.

The gentleman, then 71, has been in an illicit connection with his lady, now 62, since 2014. That same year, he separated from his spouse and moved in with his girlfriend.

Between 2015 and 2022, the guy and his girlfriend travelled up at least 24 periods, the prosecutor noted. He was given a memory diagnosis in January 2020, but he has since lost emotional power.

The boy’s family filed for divorce in April 2021.

In September 2022, the man’s children were given combined deputyship.

The mistress’s presence was only discovered by the children when the court was given an order to keep her from accessing their father.

When the judge request was sent to her, the girl was then informed of the legal proceeding.

She proceeded to make two uses – one to withdraw the children’s combined deputyship, and one for an interim order to be added as a second assistant. The following application was denied by a city judge.

The kids and the lady filed an appeal against the portions of the ruling that were invalid in December 2023. They began negotiations for a settlement, but they were able to reach a lawsuit.

They were therefore instructed by the court to send their pertains by October 8th.

The victim’s solicitor, Mr Manickavasagam R M Karuppiah Pillai, missed this date, and her charm was deemed to have been withdrawn two days later on Oct 10.

The person requested a period extension on October 18 to record the necessary paperwork. This app was presented to Justice Choo.

Mr. Manickavasagam accepted that Mr. Manickavasagam was entirely at fault for missing the deadline.

He explained that the monitoring was caused by his diabetes-related skin and eye condition, as well as a fall that resulted in four days of skilled leave.

” I sympathise with Mr Manickavasagam’s health problems, but they are limited explanation for his non-compliance with the timescales”, the judge said, as the lawyer was now aware of his vision problems but did not object to the date.

Then, Justice Choo moved on to the merits of the mistress ‘ intended appeal.

He noted that if the children were the only applicants, it might have been appropriate for the court to appoint them as deputies, but that this might not always be the case if the court is aware of a deputy who might be available.

Justice Choo said the lower court that dismissed the woman’s application to revoke the children’s deputyship seemed to “presuppose” that it would be in the man’s best interests to appoint the children.

He claimed that the court did not take into account the possibility that the woman’s best interests could be served by making her the sole deputy.

These are issues that can only be resolved by using arguments and evidence, not those before me,” he continued.

He determined that” the justice of the case” required that the mistress’s appeal be reinstated in order for the appeal court to have the option of appointing her as the sole deputy remain unaffected.

According to him, this would give the appeal court the full range of options to protect the man’s best interests in accordance with the Mental Capacity Act.

The children’s lawyer, Ms Eva Teh, argued against reinstating the woman’s appeal by saying that it would delay the hearing of her clients ‘ ongoing appeal.

She claimed that any delay would likely lead to the elderly man’s caregivers dealing with ongoing disruption and difficulties.

” In my opinion, the nature of proceedings under the Mental Capacity Act makes choosing the appropriate decision regarding who should look after ( the patient ) far more crucial than a convenient outcome,” said Justice Choo.

Therefore, he granted the mistress ‘ request to recoup her appeal and set a new filing deadline for the documents.

Additionally, he requested from Mr. Manickavasagam to provide a justification for why he should not personally support the costs of the current proceeding.