THE ROLE OF POSTVENTION
However, offering support to those affected by a drama also plays a role in preventing further injury.
The effect of death ripples far beyond immediate community, affecting friends, colleagues, and teachers. Peers from casual organizations, such as education sessions and online areas, can be just as devastated by the loss.
When my child lost a friend after falling from elevation, I first saw this. I was encouraged to learn that her brother’s school had planned programs to help students and teachers through that challenging time.
Postvention involves both supporting those who are grieving and preventing further suicides by addressing the psychological impact of a group.
Schools and communities may be able to offer age-specific help. Parents, too, may get involved in this process.
Discussing dying, especially death, with children can be very challenging. Many people are concerned that raising the subject could make them anxious or, worse, make them think they could be homicidal.
Nevertheless, avoiding the issue can lead to confusion and a sense of loneliness. Open communication fosters trust, letting kids know that they will be supported when they express feelings and certainly that they will be judged.
Although youth deaths are concerning, it’s crucial to remember that the majority of Singapore’s youths are tenacious and capable of overcoming obstacles. With powerful assistance systems- through families, schools and communities- our young people can manage anxiety, build resilience and come stronger.
As someone who has worked attentively with younger people and their families, I have firsthand experience how the appropriate support can make all the difference.
Our children are valued more than the large treatments that save lives; they are also rewarded for their enduring acts of kindness, knowledge, and listening.
Dr. Jared Ng is Connections Mind Health’s Senior Consultant and Medical Director. He was formerly the director of the Institute of Mental Health’s ministry of disaster and crisis care.